Having been back from our trip to South East Asia for 3 weeks now, I think I’d better get some thoughts down before I forget it all! It’s been nice getting photos printed and sharing (inflicting?) them with/on friends - kind of softens the shock of being back to the hum drum existence of everyday life in a cold Melbourne winter.
Ok, country by country, random thoughts:
1. SINGAPORE
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Singapore Zoo |
* Very clean and efficient, as you would imagine. Dan especially loved the way every car has an ‘e-tag’ so you don’t have to collect tickets at parking stations etc - you just get billed! Public transport was very convenient and cheap. Nobody drives a bomb - cars need to be under 10 years old.
* Consumer Culture. Like Australia, but even more so, possibly because there’s not a lot to do besides shopping, so it’s a national pastime. My understanding is that’s it’s not uncommon to shop for a whole new wardrobe every season, plus Singaporeans are constantly upgrading their cars, gadgets, furnishings etc. A LOT of money is spent on clothes, hair, makeup, grooming and this is not just for the girls! Advertising covers every inch of wall space, even elevator doors… It was a bit overwhelming, and I found myself feeling a quite dowdy and BIG. The average woman here must be a size 6, so it’s not hard for any aussie to not feel like an oversized monster, even an ABC like me! On the positive for me though, my shoe size (36) was often the one on display, which was handy in busy stores!
* Very hard for women who want to be stay at home mums - it’s not part of the culture, so workplaces are not very accommodating. Singapore doesn’t have a welfare system like ours, and 2 incomes are needed to maintain what is deemed by most as an adequate standard of living. Those that choose to stay at home forgo income and status and can feel quite isolated.
* Pressure on school kids. Students must sit extensive exams, from very early on (try grade 1)! There is a lot of pressure on kids to do well, to get into a good highschool, uni, career etc and not let their parents down. I felt sad when I went into the kids section of a big bookstore and found it full of ‘excel’ type swotting books, rather than picture books and literature.
* Food - excellent and pretty cheap, but not as good as Malaysia!
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Chilli Crab - too yummy! |
2. MALAYSIA
* Food. It’s all about the food. You could say that food is the unofficial religion of Malaysia. Tropical fruit, chicken rice, roti, pandanus(?), banana leaf, various buns, dumplings and dim sum, ice cendol, not to mention chilly and black pepper CRAB. All extremely tasty and very affordable. It seems that malysians eat about 5 times a day and the foodstalls are always open and full.
* Melting Pot. Very multicultural - main ethnic groups being Malay, Chinese and Indian. By and large everyone seems to get on very well, although there is positive discrimination policy exercised by the (Malay) government which must rankle for the other ethnic groups.
* Themed Shopping Malls. We were staying with friends in Petaling Jaya. The nearest mall was one called Sunway Pyramid, which had an Ancient Egyptian theme, complete with giant Sphinx, pyramids and theme park! The inside was decorated with hieroglyphics and the like - it was like something out of Vegas!
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Lanterns in Malacca |
* Church. From what we could gather, pentecostal style churches are very popular, with rock concert like music and preachers who give ‘you can do it!’ type sermons. There are also very conservative churches , but not a lot of vibrant evangelical churches. Lots more I could say, but won’t in this context.
* Hospitality. We were shown amazing hospitality in all 3 countries - Singapore, Malaysia and Brunei. Our hosts took annual leave to show us around, wouldn’t let us pay for anything and saw to it that we had everything we could possibly want and more. Made us realise that we Aussies are not so great at being hospitable, and our ‘make yourself at home’ attitude must be a bit of a shock for our asian visitors.
Ok, no time or space to comment on Brunei, which for us was the most ‘different’ country of all. Will try and cover it next time.
Morning frost and hints of cherry blossom,
helen xox
Sept 2011